These are the questions families most often ask when deciding on a brit milah.

About the Ceremony

 

What is a brit milah?

A brit milah is the Jewish ritual circumcision, a covenantal ceremony that welcomes a baby boy into the Jewish people. It is traditionally performed on the eighth day of life when medically appropriate. It includes the circumcision itself, liturgy, bestowing a Hebrew name, and often a celebratory meal. A brit milah is sometimes called a “bris.”

When is a brit milah performed?

The ceremony is traditionally held on the eighth day after birth. If there are medical concerns or the baby needs additional time to gain strength, the timing can be adjusted. Health and safety always come first.

Who can have a Jewish ritual circumcision?

Families of many backgrounds and family structures are welcome. Whether you are affiliated or unaffiliated, interfaith, LGBTQ+, or simply figuring out what feels right, I will help you mark this moment with care and respect.

Safety and Comfort

 

Is the procedure safe?

Brit milah is a well-established ritual with strong safety protocols. I use time-tested methods and maintain careful sterile technique and preparation for each ceremony.

How is pain managed?

I use sucrose solution, which is commonly used to soothe infants during brief procedures. Some families also choose to offer a small amount of sweet kosher wine as part of the ritual. We will talk through what you prefer during our consultation.

How long does the procedure take?

The circumcision itself takes only a few minutes. The full ceremony is unhurried and allows time for blessings, family participation, and celebration.  

Training and Oversight

 

What training do you have?

I completed rabbinic training and mohel certification under Rabbi Gary Atkins. I also completed clinical observerships at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center, Children’s Hospital Los Angeles, and Glendale Pediatrics. This combination of ritual training and clinical exposure informs how I prepare and how I support families.

Do you work with pediatricians?

Yes. I am glad to coordinate with your pediatrician when helpful, and I encourage families to involve their pediatrician whenever they have medical questions or concerns.

Are you insured?

Yes. I carry professional liability insurance with coverage of $1 million per claim and $3 million aggregate.

Planning and Logistics

Where can the ceremony take place?

The brit milah can be held at your home, a synagogue, or another location that is meaningful to your family. I will help you think through what will be most comfortable for you and your guests.

What do families need to prepare?

I will provide clear guidance ahead of time, and most families find the preparation straightforward. The focus should be on welcoming your guests and being present for the moment.

Can you help with Hebrew names and honors?

Yes. I am happy to help you choose a Hebrew name, plan family honors, and shape a ceremony that reflects your family’s values and traditions.+++

Do you travel and what areas do you serve?

I serve families throughout Southern California and am happy to discuss travel logistics during our consultation. Travel beyond Southern California is available upon request.  

Fees and Insurance

What is your fee?

My fee for a brit milah ceremony is $1,200. This reflects professional rabbinic training, clinical preparation, careful sterile technique, and personal availability before and after the ceremony, including follow-up care.

Can we bill our insurance?

I can provide a superbill upon request for families who wish to seek reimbursement from their insurance. Reimbursement, if available, depends on your specific plan and carrier.

How does payment work?

Payment is typically handled privately via check, Venmo, or cash. If you plan to seek insurance reimbursement, I am happy to provide the documentation you need.

What if cost is a concern?

I never want finances to prevent a family from welcoming their child into the covenant with care and support. If cost is a concern, please reach out and we can talk.

Aftercare

 

What should we expect after the ceremony?

Most babies heal smoothly and without complication. You can expect some redness and mild swelling in the first few days, which is normal. For more detailed guidance, please see the Aftercare page.

When should we be concerned?

Trust your instincts. If something feels wrong, contact your pediatrician. If you have questions about what you are seeing or you want reassurance, contact me. I would rather hear from you than have you sitting at home worried.

Will you follow up after the ceremony?

Yes. I check in with families at 3 days and 10 days after the ceremony, either via telehealth or in person based on your preference. You can also reach out to me anytime in between.

If you would like to talk through your questions personally, you are welcome to schedule a call or contact me directly.